One afternoon, while relaxing in the premises of Godavari Hostel, Jawaharlal Nehru University, my roommates-cum-friends were discussing about oral sex and the much needed requirements to pursue it. The women spoke about pubic hair, shaving, smelling nice and sniggered at the women who would leave their pubic hair on while receiving oral sex.
The stigmatising of the vagina ostensibly begins with name calling such as ‘down there’, ‘cunt’, or even ‘pussy’ for that matter. It is interesting how the most natural odour emanating from any part of our body becomes an element of shame and disgust. The dislike and embarrassment is often used as an opportunity by the market to sell its products under the garb of ‘smelling good’, thereby claiming to aid us in ‘saving our vaginas’. Nonetheless, it has to be comprehended that vaginas don’t need saving, more than anything else, they need claiming, an acceptance and embracing.


