Growing up around people who greatly believed in Lord Ayyappa's miraculous powers to grant wishes and ensure the prosperity of his devotees, it was always a matter of wonder that while women of a certain age could pray to him at home, they could never visit his temple in Sabarimala.
Men planning their annual pilgrimage in January to the hill top temple would fast for 40 days, grow beards, wear only unstitched garments and, yes, stay out of sight of women, particularly menstruating ones. Girls having their periods during the time had to spend those five days at their friends' or neighbours' homes. Apart from the embarrassment it caused to those little girls from homes where this rule was strictly enforced, it was also unfair and unjust to subject women to such public humiliation and isolation in the name of a bachelor god. Other bachelor gods like Lord Hanuman and Lord Ganesh did not demand such discrimination against one half of the human population.

