“Most women, trapped in dependency, don’t often get to be taken seriously. However, when they manoeuvre themselves into a superior position, whether as mothers, elder sisters, grandmothers, aunts or even well-established wives, they acquire numerous advantages that accumulate, including certain well-defined rights to order and command.”
Writing in an essay, writer and academic Madhu Kishwar exposes a peculiar trend in Indian politics – the desexualisation of the politician.
In a cultural ethos where familial ties hold prime importance, cultivating the image of an Amma (late Tamil Nadu chief minister Jayalalithaa), Didi (West Bengal Chief Minister Mamata Banerjee) or Behenji (Bahujan Samaj Party supremo Mayawati) helps. Assuming an association that has familial connotations involves the toning down of one’s sexuality, a trend that is not reserved only for women. Political observers, however, add that the pattern is much more prevalent among women than men.

