It was the kind of love story which every young boy and girl in rural Tamil Nadu yearns for. This is the story which blockbuster romance movies are made of, and when you see it play out in your own life, it sends the mind racing ahead in happiness.
Sankar and Kowsalya were students studying different courses at the PA College in Palani. The couple met on the bus they used to take regularly back home. Love blossomed and they decided to get married.
There was however one major problem – Kowsalya was a Thevar, a powerful OBC community, and Sankar was a Pallar, a Dalit.
The clash between Thevars and Pallars in Tamil Nadu is an old one. The conflict increased with time as Thevar hegemony was challenged with the Pallars becoming less dependent on them for employment.
The fate of these two youngsters shows how horrifying it is for many couples who choose to marry out of the caste.
Caste Discrimination
On Sunday, Sankar and Kowsalya were attacked by three people with sickles in broad daylight at a busy market in Udumalaipettai. Sankar did not survive the attack and Kowsalya is battling for life, after having sustained serious injuries on her head.
One of Kowsalya’s relatives once saw them on the bus. He made enquiries about Sankar’s caste as that’s really the first question anyone around here would ask. Her parents started threatening and protesting. But she was brave and unwavering about her commitment to Sankar.Friend
From the time the couple fell in love in 2014, to the brutal hacking on Sunday, their lives have been dotted with incidents of violence and intimidation.
Unperturbed by her parents’ opposition, the couple decided to get married.
Sankar’s father Veluchamy, a daily wage laborer, calls his daughter-in-law a dedicated girl.
We had never opposed the marriage from the beginning. In fact, my son simply informed me that he had decided to marry. I feel that if two people are in love, caste should not come in between. So I was okay with it. The girl was very nice, she used to take care of him, and she was fearless.Veluchamy, Sankar’s father
The first attempt to kidnap Kowsalaya was made just a few days after the wedding.
Her grandfather had visited them for two days and on the second day he left a scooter parked at Sankar’s house. He came back later and asked her to accompany him to the doctor. After the check-up, the grandfather took her to another spot from where a bunch of men kidnapped her. She was taken to her house, but she refused to budge and did not eat or drink for five days. On the sixth day, her grandfather took her to the police station to lodge a complaint against Sankar. When nothing worked, she was allowed to come back.Friend
Two months after this incident, Sankar and his wife narrowly escaped another kidnapping attempt.
My brother and sister-in-law went to Udumalaipettai to buy clothes. The girl’s family tried to kidnap her from the bus stop. They created a ruckus at the bus stand and people rushed to help. The police took them to the station.Vigneshwar, Sankar’s younger brother
Twice in the recent past, Kowsalya’s relatives landed up at Sankar’s house, intimidating the couple.
The torture was constant. Her parents and grandparents came with two men to our house two months ago. They hit and chased Sankar threatening him to stay away.Veluchamy, Sankar’s father
It did not stop at that. Around two weeks ago, there was a renewed attempt to separate the couple.
The girl’s family went to their house, threatened to disown her and take her away forcibly. They burnt her clothes and slippers and said that she was no longer their daughter for staying with him. They said that she was dead to them for marrying him. Is caste bigger than life? Is it more important than your child’s happiness?Sumathi, Sankaran’s aunt
Brutally Hacked
For weeks after that Sankar and Kowsalya barely stepped out of their houses.
She took up a job in a tile factory recently after discontinuing her studies. They would both go to work and come back straight home.Sankar’s father
On Sunday, the couple were in a happy mood. They wanted to buy new clothes as Sankar’s birthday was coming up soon and Kowsalya had got her first salary.
He stepped out of the house for one day and told us that they would be killed only if they stay inside the house, no one will dare to do it in public. But look how brutally he was hacked in a market. This is what caste fury does.Kowsalya’s aunt
(The writer Divya Karthikeyan works with The News Minute.)
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