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From Summer Games to Finding ‘Her’: How I Embraced My Bisexuality

You try hard to not get labelled ‘the weird one’, as one of your classmates has already been branded ‘the lesbian’.

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You have a group of female friends, a collection of Barbie dolls and an imagination that is restricted to playing ‘ghar ghar’ as we called it in the nineties. The girl with the short hair is the husband, the long-haired girl is the wife – and if dolls are scant to come by (or if you want to add realism to the make-belief ‘heteronormative’ world), then the shortest girl in the group becomes the child.

The game is very straightforward – husband goes to work, wife cooks, child plays, husband comes home, the family eats and goes to sleep. But kids are curious – research indicates that child sexuality develops from as early as seven or eight years of age.

So the ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ invariably peck each other on the lips.

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