Why We Aren’t Bridging Gender Gap at Work – Because it Suits Men

“Auratein kam karti hain to purushon ko lagta hai ki unki shaan kam ho jaygi aur parivar ki maryada khatm ho jayega” (When women go out to work, men think their pride and their family’s honour will be destroyed).The statement above was a response to a formative research exercise that Partners in Change carried out in June 2017, to inform Breakthrough’s intervention in the garment sector in Faridabad, Haryana. The research exercise was aimed at creating an enabling environment for women workers in the garment sector.Does the Gender of the Defence Minister Matter?Deplorable Stats on Women’s Workforce ParticipationIt’s a well-known fact that women’s workforce participation in India has been sliding rapidly. In 2004-05, the share of working-age women in paid jobs was 43 percent–the same as in 1993-94. This dropped to 27 percent in 2015-16*. In rural India, the slide has been much worse as women’s contribution to agricultural work is largely invisible and the sector has not generated employment for women formally. India was ranked 108 among 144 countries on the economic participation and opportunities index in the Global Gender Report 2017.Another report that is still in progress reports the percentage of women in the workforce across Delhi as just 13 percent; if this is the situation in one of the largest metropolitan cities in the world, clearly something is terribly wrong.Wide Gender Pay Gap For Similarly Qualified Indian Women And Men Challenges Women FaceThe gender gap in the labour force is rooted in challenges that working women across the world face, including juggling work and family responsibilities, sexism at the workplace, unequal wage and unsafe work environments, lack of crècheS and other facilities at work, and so on.While all of these reasons are important to address, the scenario also needs to be studied from the viewpoint of the traditional roles women have played in society for centuries, and the patriarchal mindsets at play in IndiaThe McKinsey Global Institute Report – The Power of Parity, on how gender inequality affects GDP and the economy of India, links, for the first time, the idea of gender equality at work with gender equality in society, saying that, “The former is not possible without the latter”.“When jobs are scarce, men should have more right to a job than women.”“When a mother works for pay, the children suffer.”Reactions like these bring home the point that mindsets at work and home for women are intrinsically linked. Promoting positive gender relations in the workplace and within families together can lead to improving the rights and lives of women workers. In other words, gender attitudes inform society’s reaction to a working woman.I Don’t Care About The Gender Pay-Gap In Cricket: Snehal PradhanWomen’s Mobility & Family HonourThe formative research mentioned earlier points out how women’s mobility is closely linked to their ‘honour,’ rather than their earning power or their ability to hold a position in a competitive work arena.This view enables households and families to exercise greater control over women. For instance, respondents to the research said that because of this link to ‘honour’, they face a number of restrictions on how to behave, how to dress, whom to speak to and whom to not speak to, when they step outside the house.As many respondents shared, their families feel that, “Once a woman starts working and earns money, she doesn’t have to depend on her husband and will take her own decisions in a small way. Gradually, the man will start losing control over her”.Neighbours, too, ask questions–why is your daughter-in-law coming home so late? Who is the man she was talking to in the market? And families must constantly face such queries, steeped in the norms that the community follows. This—neighbourly interference—becomes another form of control over women.During the street theatre shows that we at Breakthrough organise for these women on issues they face at home and at work, women acknowledge that many instances of domestic violence are triggered by the idea that men are unable to accept their wife’s newfound mobility.Honour & Control Continue to Suffocate WomenWhile domestic violence is common even among women who do not go to work, the increased mobility is an additional reason for the violence. In a patriarchal setup, roles are clearly demarcated. So if a woman steps out of the home leaving her daily household duties behind, a disruption is bound to happen.For instance, women might ask their husbands to contribute, however little, in domestic chores. This is clearly viewed as not respecting the husband who is used to having his every whim and fancy catered to. The in-laws find it unacceptable too.Connected to the whole question of honour and control, is the masculine construct of men being the main breadwinner in the family. A Breakthrough campaign on masculinity in 2016-17 spoke with more than 3000 men in Haryana about their wives stepping out of the home to work. We continue to use the campaign messages with the communities in Haryana and other parts of the country.Men clearly linked this with honour – “Kya mein itna kamzor ho gya hoon, ki mera aurat ko ab kam karne nikalna parega?” (Am I so enfeebled that my woman has to now step out to work?).Many men feel their masculinity is being questioned if the women in the family step out of home to work.Along with promoting inclusive workplaces and transforming gender relations within the workplace, empowering women workers to access their rights and advocating for behaviour change across the supply chain, there is an inherent need to address gender justice within families. We must also enable communities to look at working women with respect. One without the other will be like leaving a glass only half full.(This piece was originally published on India Development Review , and has been republished with permission.)(CEO of Breakthrough, Sohini is a social change enthusiast who has 25+ years of experience in the social sector. Prior to Breakthrough, she co-founded a gender resource centre; worked directly with grassroots communities and built market-artisan interfaces for a national NGO. This is a personal blog and the views expressed are the author’s own. The Quint neither endorses nor is responsible for them.)

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