(World Alzheimer’s Day, 21 September of each year, is a day on which Alzheimer’s organisations around the world concentrate on raising awareness about Alzheimer’s and dementia. Alzheimer’s is the most common form of dementia, a group of disorders that impairs mental functioning.)
Anjum Gupta (name changed) furiously demands the car keys to drive to her daughter’s Marine Lines house in Mumbai. Her husband of 40 years, Prakash Gupta, reads quietly, unrelenting or unperturbed by her shouts and shrieks.
Anjum is 70 years old. Her daughter shifted base to US, almost 15 years back. Anjum was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2003.
In Alzheimer’s, or any other chronic debilitating disease, as the caregivers compassion recedes, the disease advances.
“What’s the point of arguing or even humouring her now? I’ve done all that, dealing with her irrational pleas and the absurd demands. But now she’s descended too deep in her illness. I love her but on most days she doesn’t know me. I saw her dissolve in front of my eyes.”
–Prakash Gupta, 74 years old, caregiver to his Wife


