A Year Later, Here’s How #MeToo Has Affected These Four Women

While women who shared their #MeToo story suffered, there was also great amount of good that came out of it. 

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Four women share how their lives have changed since they shared their #MeToo stories in 2018.

Journalist and curator of the India Me Too handle on Twitter, Rituparna Chatterjee, recently tweeted that she was looking for a job. When I came across the tweet, it made me wonder why a senior journalist like her, with over 15 years of experience as an editor, was finding it difficult to get a job.

When The Quint reached out to Rituparna, she admitted that it actually took her 24 hours of debating with herself before she finally had the courage to ask for a job on Twitter. Even the first line of her tweet read, “It’s really tough, overcoming my hesitation/pride to tweet this thread.” In the thread that follows, Rituparna opened up about how all the pro bono work that she took up in the aftermath of #MeToo left her overwhelmed and unable to look for paid work.

Rituparna is not alone. There are several other women who stepped up and became the voice of change during the #MeToo movement. I spoke to a few of them to find out what impact the movement has had on its crusaders.

First, let’s begin with the woman who triggered this train of thought.

1. Rituparna Chatterjee, Journalist

A journalist by profession, Rituparna Chatterjee also runs the #MeToo India page.
A journalist by profession, Rituparna Chatterjee also runs the #MeToo India page.
(Photo Courtesy: Instagram)

Freelance projects kept Rituparna busy from October to December 2018, but as the #MeToo movement gained momentum, she was flooded with messages from people. Since Rituparna was also running the #MeToo India handle on Twitter, which was kind of streamlining and chronicling the whole movement, she was regularly approached by survivors who needed support. Rituparna engaged with these survivors to find out what resources they needed. She helped them understand whether it was a police complaint they needed to file or approach the NCW (National Commission for Women). Naturally, much of her time and energy went into helping others. But here’s how it impacted her personally.

“I didn’t have the time to pitch for stories. I don’t have an income now and I need to get back to work, which is why I reached out for help. The other intangible toll is the perception. You are seen as a troublemaker if you do this kind of work. So it makes people wary because you’ve already crossed the line between a journalist and an activist.”
Rituparna Chatterjee, Journalist

All the #MeToo related work also took a huge toll on Rituparna’s mental health, in that she had continuous anxiety attacks throughout 2018. And eventually had to seek therapy for the same.

“The reason for the anxiety was mainly I think because it triggered my trauma over and over again. All of us have incidents in our past. But these are stories we chose to hear, we chose to share, we chose activism, we chose to collaborate and help and amplify. But what we didn’t choose is the vicious backlash, the trolling and the mansplaining.”
Rituparna Chatterjee, Journalist

Despite the hurdles, Rituparna has no regrets about her choices. “This is a work I'll do again, every chance I get I'll do it.” adds the 38-year-old journalist.

“Women came together in such a large scale, embracing each other literally across cities and continents, even virtually coming together for each other. It’s a powerful, beautiful experience. It’s an empowering feeling to be able to see women fight back. That itself is a big deal for many of us. Women having each other’s back is the most beautiful thing.”
Rituparna Chatterjee, Journalist

2. Sona Mohapatra, Singer

A singer by profession, Sona Mohapatra never holds back while voicing strong opinions. 
A singer by profession, Sona Mohapatra never holds back while voicing strong opinions. 
(Photo Courtesy: Instagram)

In October 2018, the world woke up to a tweet that eventually became one of the biggest #MeToo stories in the entertainment industry. It was a tweet by singer Sona Mohapatra in which she accused singer Anu Malik of passing a lewd comment in front of Sona’s husband Ram Sampath. She also wrote about how the composer and Indian Idol judge would call her up at odd hours to ask awkward and random questions. And that’s how Sona’s #MeToo journey began. She also accused Kailash Kher of sexual misconduct.

But once Sona’s allegations against Anu Malik and Kailash Kher hit the headlines, the result was devastating as Sona started losing work. The entire incident impacted her not just emotionally but financially also.

“A lot of my shows got cancelled, I was asked to leave the reality show ‘Sa Re Ga Ma Pa’ without being given any relevant reason. More than me, I have a whole team. They were all heartbroken. We had cancelled our US tour to take up ‘Sa Re Ga Ma Pa’. The US tour was a nine-city tour, that’s a lot of money that the whole team was counting on. Midway after sixteen episodes we were asked to leave ‘Sa Re Ga Ma Pa’. We were left without the tour, we were left without the show and my whole team suffered.”
Sona Mohapatra, Singer
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To all the young girls & women who are coming out with their experiences with this creep, journalists, ‘fans’ & even kids from college, know that you are not alone. This guy, #KailashKher is a serial predator & has been for years as are many others like Anu Malik in the industry. I cannot be tweeting about everyone cus I work 18 hour work days & have a life to live & breathe in. Also I cannot comment on many others basis heresay. That would be unfair. (Many journalists have been asking me for stories thinking that I’m most likely to ‘spill the beans’. I’m not) It is important that we stick to facts & our personal experiences to make this a serious & credible movement to help clean a system & lopsided power structure. It is just a start but an important one. #TimesUp #India #Change

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Soon, multiple women started getting in touch with her. They shared their stories, their trauma with Sona. Some even recalled experiences from when they were minors around the singers accused by Sona.

Now, it’s important to remember that as much as these women (Rituparna Chatterjee, Sona Mohapatra) might have wanted to help others , they were still not professionally trained to deal with such trauma.

“After days and weeks of listening to other people’s stories, it started taking a toll on me. I finally realised I am not professionally geared to deal with it. I gained an alarming amount of weight because of stress. So I had to go for therapy. Right now I have gotten off it but I might need to go back.”
Sona Mohapatra, Singer

Despite the difficulties, Sona firmly believes that #MeToo has not failed. She tells us about an incident that perfectly captures the success of the movement.

“Just when I was feeling low after meeting my gynecologist who told me ‘Nothing happened after the #MeToo thing right?’ I came back home that day, getting ready for a concert. My makeup artiste is a beautiful 26-year-old girl who works on web series, films and advertising sets. She asked me why I looked so depressed, so I told her about the conversation I had with my gynecologist. She recounted an incident. She had just joined a new web-series set, and had also started working on a new film,” Sona began.

She further elaborated on her makeup artiste’s experience on the set that she was working on

“The first thing they received on the sets, not only her but everyone in her crew (all the women), was a page where there were contact numbers and email ids so that they can reach out if they were being harassed or somebody behaved inappropriately with them. This was never there a year-and-a half-before. And she told me, you have brought about that change.”
Sona Mohapatra, Singer

For Sona, this meant that at least some were trying to acknowledge the fact that systems are needed to make women feel safe in their workspace. “This change is at the systemic level, at a grassroot level. They are acknowledging that there could be an issue on the sets and there should be a system in place which addresses it. Now that is a change we should celebrate,” concludes Sona.

3. Vinta Nanda, Filmmaker/Writer

A writer-producer, Vinta Nanda accused Alok Nath of rape after 19 years.
A writer-producer, Vinta Nanda accused Alok Nath of rape after 19 years.
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During the #MeToo movement, filmmaker Vinta Nanda accused Bollywood actor Alok Nath of rape. After going public with her story, she even filed an FIR. However, in January 2019, a Mumbai sessions court granted Alok Nath an anticipatory bail stating that, “Vinta did not lodge the report immediately after the alleged incident for her own benefit.” But what happened to the case after that?

She tells us that after the anticipatory bail, Vinta decided not to do anything about the case as it seemed to be going nowhere and was taking away a lot of her time.

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“I didn’t do anything about the case, so there is nothing that happened. I mean, it’s as simple and honest as that. Had I pursued and pushed it and whatever, maybe it would have gone places. But at the same time, my work was just compelling and I was realising that I was just losing out on my work time. So I just decided that I better focus on my work because that’s what’s going to pay my bills. Right? So that’s what happened with my case.”
Vinta Nanda, Filmmaker/Writer

Even though Vinta chose not to pursue the case any further, it still wasn’t an easy road for her in the aftermath of sharing the horrifying story. Just like the other women, she too lost out on projects she was already working on. At that point, Vinta was writing two web series; both of which she lost. One simply said that they were terminating it, and the other sent an email saying that it wasn’t working out.

However, going public with her story helped Vinta in her personal life. She felt much lighter and was more than happy to leave everything behind and continue doing good work.

“I was carrying this thing for too long. And then once it was over and done with, I pushed the burden off my shoulders, which I had forgotten I was carrying to start with. So I am feeling obviously like, lighter in life and getting along, trying to do good work.”
Vinta Nanda, Filmmaker/Writer

Sharing trauma has worked like therapy for this warrior. And now, a year later, she is finally in a much better space.

“I’m in a very nice space. And you know, what happens also is that you’re able to separate the wheat from the chaff. After coming out, you’ve spoken up, you’ve kind of tested grounds around you and you see how people react.  And you get to know, who’s on the same wavelength as you and who’s not. So all that happened for the first three-five months was quite a churn. But now things are beautiful. I mean, back on track, working. There’s no complaint.”
Vinta Nanda, Filmmaker/Writer

4. Chinmayi Sripaada, Singer

Chinmayi Sripaada, a singer from South India who accused veteran poet Vairamuthu of sexual harassment.
Chinmayi Sripaada, a singer from South India who accused veteran poet Vairamuthu of sexual harassment.
(Photo Courtesy: Instagram)

Chinmayi Sripaada is a well-known singer from the South. She has been a #MeToo crusader, and an important part of the movement ever since it took off in India.

It was in October 2018 that Chinmayi took to Twitter to share her story; she accused award-winning poet Vairmuthu of sexual harassment.

Ever since that tweet, Chinmayi has been fighting for justice not just for herself, but also for many others who have approached her.

“I have been formally banned by the Tamil Nadu dubbing union. I have been fighting a legal battle for almost a year now. And if at all I end up working somewhere, they send their people and force them that I shouldn’t work. So work has been scarce but the good thing is that I have not restricted myself to just one language, which is Tamil. I sing in multiple languages. So from somewhere or the other work has been coming.”
Chinmayi Sripaada, Singer

But Chinmayi’s situation is not just about a woman calling out a manner of sexual harassment. The man that she had accused belongs to a dominant caste and is backed by political power. He is even regarded as a symbol of Tamil nationalist pride. As Chinmayi puts it, “‘the politics of it is really complicated.” While that’s a whole other story, the important thing to know here is that the person getting shamed by the regional media is Chinmayi herself.

Yet, Chinmayi has found a ray of hope.

“I feel like I have found a calling as to what I want to be working on, lifelong. Which is creating awareness and continuing to speak in every platform I get. A lot of people keep telling me you are saying the same thing. Even though I keep speaking the same thing I don’t think any media house in Chennai has set up an ICC (Internal Complaints Committee). My own friends have refused to set up an ICC saying I am the only one talking about it.”
Chinmayi Sripaada, Singer

As she continues to try and change the perception of the society and raise awareness, she tells us that there are still people who are unwilling to have a chat about this. But that doesn’t stop her from doing her best. She regularly organises meetups which help people heal from trauma.

“Right now I am not raging, not angry. It’s strange that I would say that, when I should be but I am actually channeling that into work that can bring about change in perception, change in mindsets. This is a chance for me to find a reason to give back.”
Chinmayi Sripaada, Singer

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